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Praying Their Way

Praying Their Way

24 Prayer Practices for Kids and the Adults Who Love Them  

by L. Roger Owens, with Mary Clare Owens
Libro de bolsillo
Niños Oración Práctica Espiritual

Available February 2026; Preorder Now!

Learn how to help kids develop an authentic relationship with God.

Children have a natural curiosity about God and an innate draw towards mystery. As they grow, kids ask bigger, more complex spiritual questions, and they need guides to help them explore their budding faith lives. Frustratingly, many of us lack the confidence or skills to talk to kids about prayer. We need resources to help us help them pray, in their own words and on their terms.

In Praying Their Way, seminary professor, pastor, and dad Roger Owens partners with his 15-year-old daughter Mary Clare to offer a unique guidebook for introducing kids to a lifelong journey with prayer. Filled with an abundance of tools to engage kids between the ages of 10-14 on the topic of prayer, this book provides support for that awkward time as kids grow from young children into teenagers and their faith grows and evolves too.

In this new resource for adults and the "tweens" they care for, you'll discover a new vocabulary for talking about prayer, specific prompts for conversation, and two dozen prayer practices in six different categories (scripture, silence, body, nature, together, and justice) to explore with kids in grades 5-8. Praying Their Way is easily adaptable for younger kids and kids through 9th grade, as well as the spiritual-but-not-religious audience.

Written for parents, grandparents, godparents, pastors, children's ministers, and Sunday school teachers, Praying Their Way is the book we have all been longing for. With Roger and Mary Clare as your wise guides, you will embark on a joyful journey of discovery and holy connection with the kids you love. And, as you share these practices with these young people, you may find that your own relationship with God is deepened and enriched as well.

Format: Libro de bolsillo
ISBN: 978-0-8358-2063-9
Imprint: Upper Room Books
Publication Date: 02/01/2026
Pages: 192
Dimensions: 9,0000 x 6,0000 x 0,3460

L. Roger Owens is professor of Christian spirituality and ministry at Pittsburgh Theological Seminary. He is the author of several books, including What We Need Is Here: Practicing the Heart of Christian Spirituality and Threshold of Discovery: A Field Guide to Spirituality in Midlife. Owens holds a PhD and MDiv from Duke University and a BA from Anderson University. An ordained United Methodist minister, he has pastored urban and rural congregations in North Carolina. Owens is married to Rev. Ginger Thomas, and they are the parents of three children. He loves to read, sing, listen to his children make music, and take quiet walks.


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"Praying Their Way is a true gift—for parents, ministry leaders, and anyone who cares about nurturing children’s spiritual lives. Roger and Mary Clare have woven deep wisdom with practical guidance, offering accessible ways for families to grow together in prayer. I will gladly—and gratefully—share this book with every family in my church." –Johannah Myers, D.Min, Executive Director, Messy Church USA


"Praying Their Way is a tender and reflective guide to helping kids encounter God in prayer. This work invites us all to slow down, listen deeply, and remember that friendship with God is for every age." –Traci Smith, author of the Faithful Families series.


"This book is a blessing to any parent, pastor or youth leader who has ever felt ill-equipped to help a middle schooler spend quality time with God through prayer. Profound insights from Christian spirituality come through in language accessible to 12-year-olds, expressed so deftly that readers will not grow out of them in later years, but will grow into them more and more over time. This book is a joy to read and do, keep and give, visit and revisit." –Rev. Dr. Ruth L. Boling, PC(USA) pastor and author of Come Worship With Me: A Journey through the Church Year and Season's Greetings: Christmas Letters from Those Who Were There.


"Praying Their Way is a testament to the innate wisdom and spiritual capacity of children, both in its authorship by a young person and in its recognition that children may grow through simple, accessible, partnered prayer practices with loving adults. As a mother, a lay pastor, a therapist, and a professor, I can incorporate each of Roger and Mary Clare's prayer practices into my life and work." –Sarah Flannery, Assistant Professor of Marriage and Family Therapy, Louisville Seminary


"I have never read a book so appropriately written to "tweens." It speaks openly and clearly without a hint of condescension. Tweens will resonate with this book and I believe the prayer practices will help them in their journey of faith. I plan to use this book with the children in my church!" –Rev. Dr. Leanne Hadley, Associate Pastor, First United Methodist Church, Frankfort, Kentucky


"In Praying Their Way, Roger Owens has created something rare and beautiful: a book about prayer that feels less like instruction and more like invitation. What makes this work truly special is the collaboration with his daughter, Mary Clare, whose honest reflections and questions ground the manuscript in the lived experience of a young person discovering God." –Sophfronia Scott, author of This Child of Faith: Raising a Spiritual Child in a Secular World?and?The Seeker and the Monk: Everyday Conversations with Thomas Merton


"Praying Their Way beautifully invites tweens and grown-ups to explore prayer practices together. I loved the engaging stories, honest experiences, and 'Ways to Pray' guides that make prayer practices inviting and meaningful. Roger and Mary Clare offer a much-needed book on prayer for tweens and adults alike." –Rev. Kathy Pittenger, MBA, Deacon in the Michigan Conference of The United Methodist Church leading initiatives in faith formation.


"Mary Clare Owens and her dad Roger have written such a beautiful and theologically rich resource together, perfect for tweens and the grown-ups in their lives! Praying Their Way provides straightforward and accessible language to profound and mysterious truths about God and prayer. This book is theology, story, and practice woven together in one handbook perfect for ministry leaders, caregivers, and the students themselves." –Rev. Melissa Collier Gepford, Intergenerational Discipleship Coordinator, Great Plains Conference of The United Methodist Church


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